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发布日期:2019/05/02 浏览次数: 1668


dushushi,woshigebijiaogupideren,pagenrenjianghua。canjiagongzuozhihou,woyebushigehuaduoderen。erqie,gengyaomingdeshi,zaigongzuozhong,wosuochideguandianshi:duoganyidian,shaoshuoyidian。wozongshijuede,neixiediediebuxiuderenmeiyouzhenbenshi,suoyiduineixiexihuangongzuozhongxianliaoderenjiweikanbuqi,juedetamenshixiuhuazhentou,tuyouxubiao。zheiyejiushidewoyutongshidexiangchubingbuzenmehao,dajiasihuduiwodeyinxiangyebujia。


youyici,woyushichangbuyigeyewuyuanquchucha,tayilushangdiediebuxiu,jinjiangxiezaiwotinglai,quanshixiefeihuadehua,suoyiwochaojifan。keshi,zaikehuneili,wofaxiantabiwodegoutongxiaoguohao,tazongshizaigezhongmeihuadehuanjie,zhaodaogezhonghuati,ranhoutaotaobujuejiuliaoqilaile。tagencaigouliaoderehuochaotian,gencangkuguanliderenliaodebuyilehu,genjinliaojianyandexiaonvhai,yexixihaha,naochengyituan。zaihuichengdelushang,jiujiedaodianhua,kehuyijingxiadanle。wobeiheleyitiao,diyiciganjuedao,yuanlaixianliaoyeshizhonggongzuonenglia。


houlai,wojiumanmandi,duixianliaozheizhongshibuzaineimetaoyanle。zaigongzuozhong,wooueryehuixuexixiawomenneiweiyewuyuan,meishizhaogehuati,liaoyiliao。wofaxian,youshihou,neizhongmeishenmeneirongdehuati,qishiyeshiyouyiyide,biru,suiranniliaodehuatiyugongzuowuguan,dannihaishikeyicongxianliaozhongfaxianduifangdegexing,lejieduifangderenge、xingqu、aihaodengdeng。tebieshimoshengren,xianliao,jiuxiangshishiyanshideshizhiyiyang,keyilikepanduanchuyigerenshifourongyiqinjin,keyicongnagejiaoduhuozhehuatiqieru,gentagoutong。


wodiyicijiangxianliaozhuanbianchenggongzuonengli,zeshizaiwodangshouhougongchengshideshihou。youyici,kehutousuwomendechanpinyouwenti,woqukan,kehushuoyaotuihuigongsizhongjian。woxiang,zheihaibujizhetengsi,erqieyidantuihuo,huizaikehuneililiuxiabuliangdejilu。yushigenpinzhizhuguanshangliangzaitamengongsixianchangzhongjian。kehutongyile。keshi,neitianzhiyouwoyigeren,neigegongzuoliangdagaishilianggerenyitiandegongzuoliang。wozhengzaifachoudegongfu,kanjiantamenfuzejinliaojianyandejigexiaonvhaidouxianzhe。yushiwojiucouguoqudashan,gentamenxianliao,buyihuijiuliaoderehuochaotian。tamenwenwoshiganshenmede?wojiugaosuta,bangtamenjianyanchanpinde,yushitamenjiuzhudongshuo,tamenzhenghaomeishi,bangwoyiqijian。yushi,women5geren,lianggeduoxiaoshijiujianwanle。erqie,yinweitamenjiushifuzechoujiandenvhaizi,tamenzijijiande,buhuizaipanbuhegede。yushixiawu,wojiuzaozaode,kaikaixinxinhuigongsile。


congci,wobuzaitaoyanxianliao,ershizaigongzuozhong,huozherichangyutongshimendeguanxichulizhong,youyiliyongxianliaozheizhongjineng,yongyixiaochuduihuashuangfangdeganga,gaibianqifen,suoduanbicizhijiandejuli,huozhezhizaohuatijihui,chuangzaoyuyixiepingshihenshaojihuigoutongdetongshizhijiandexiehoujihui,congergaishanbicizhijiandeguanxi。manman,wofaxian,wobuzaishineizhongmumude,meihuatikeliaoderen,woyutongshizhijiandexiangchu,yerongyilehenduo。gengzhongyaodeshi,wozaitongshimendeyanzhong,buzaishineizhonggaoleng、gupi,ziyiweishidexingxiangle。


daowokaishizoushangguanligangweizhihou,yinweigongzuodexuyao,goutongdegongzuojiuzuodegengduole,jingguolexiangdangyiduanshijiandeduanlian,woduixianliaozheizhongshi,bujinbuchu,jianjiande,youleyixiexinde。xiamian,wojiutantanwoduixianliaoderenshihelijie,yudajiajiaoliu。


yi、xianliao≠xialiao


henduorenkenenggenwogangcanjiagongzuoshilijiedeyiyang,yiweixianliaojiushixialiao,qishifeiye。xianliaojueduibushixialiao,shijishang,xianliaoyeshiyizhonggoutongfangshi,tagengduodegongneng,shiweiledapochenmo,xiaochuganga,chuangzaojinruzhengshihuatidejihui。goutongzhong,tanhuabunengdouzhuiqiuyouyiyi,youshihou,wuyiyidetanhua,qishigengnengzhanxianchuyigerendexihaohegexing,gengrongyilajinbicideqinjingan。


yezhengshiyinweiruci,xianliaozhong,youjigefangmianxuyaozhuyi:


1、meishizhineirong≠meibiyao


renzaishuohuadeguochengzhong,xuyaozhuazhuzhongdian,danbunengyijuhuazhiqiezhuti,ranhoujiujieshu。dangran,buzhigongzuorenwudeduihua,keyizhiqiezhongdian,zheiyangqueshishishengshijian,erqieyeweixiashusuonengjieshou。danzheiyangdeshangsigujiyetaiwuqudejin。haodeshangsi,zaikaishibuzhiyiersanzhiqian,yibanyehaishixuyaoyixierouruandehuati,zhizaodianrangdajiafangsongdefenwei,cishi,jiuxuyaoxianliaolaijinxingrunhuaheguodule。


haibirushangwutanpan,nibunengyishanglaijiuzhiqiezhuti,yiersankaitan,zheiyangyeshimeiyoutanhaodefenweihejichude。yiban,zaizhengshikaishiqian,tanpanshuangfangdouhuizhaoxieqingsongdehuati,xianliaoshangyizhen,yingzaoyidianyouhao、qinqiedeqifen,zhihou,zaiqieruzhengti,kaishizhengshidetanpan,jiuxiangduihenrongyitanle。


2、dazhaohushikaiqixianliaomoshideshenqi


yurendazhaohu,zheishiqimadelimao。erdazhaohu,yewangwangshijinxingxianliaodezuijiashiji。yiju“zao”,huozheyiju“jintiantianqibucuo”shidapobicizhijianchenmodezuijiawuqi。jiexiaqu,duanduanyiliangjuduihuazhihou,jiukeyizhuanrurenhedehuatile。zheiyangdeliaotian,bicizhijianjimeiyougehe,youmeiyouchengjian,yebuhuiganga,xiangliaodianshadoukeyi。


3、xianliaobuyaozhuijielun


henduorenbuhuixianliaodezhengjiezhiyi,jiushitanhuafeiyaodechugejielun。danzaixianliaozhong,shiwanquanmeibiyaode。xianliaojiushixianliao,jiushizengjinganqingdeyizhongfangshi,buxuyao,yemeibiyaoyidingdedaoshenmejielun,gengjiabuyaozhuizherenjiadehuatibufang,feiyaodechugejielun。


nvxingyibanbinanxingshanzhangliaotian,yinweitamennengliaozaiyiqidejimaosuanpidehuatitingduo。dantingshuo,nvxingzhijiansibideshiqing,wangwangyerongyifashengzaixianliaoshi,yinweizongyouxiejiaozhendeliaotianzhe,xiangzaiduihuazhongdechugezijixiangyaodejielun。zheiyangyilai,jiuwanquanpohuailexianliaodeqifen,jieguo,xianliaojiuhuibianchengsibidaohuosuo。


suoyi,zaixianliaoshi,qianwanbuyaoshituzhudaohuatizouxiang,huozhemudemingquedetongzhenghuati,buyaojihuatixiajielun,buyaozongshizongjiechenci。xianliaojiushiranghuatisuiyizixingfazhan,jiaocaixiguapi,liaodaonalisuannali,ranhou,zaiyourenshituzuojielunqian,yukuaidijieshu。


4、ranghuatililuodijieshu


xianliaodezuidamiaochuzhiyi,jiushibubifeiyaozuojielun。yigehuixianliaoderen,yinggainengrangxianliaobianchengyizhongzhenzhengdejianyadegongju,erbushijiduifangtuzengyali。biru,zailianggerengongzuoyiduanluozhihou,huxiangliaoshangjiju,qingsongde,jiandandehuati,zheiyangjikeyirangduifangbiandefangsong,keyidiaojiyixiazhuangtaihefenwei,zaichabuduodejiedian,shuo:“womenxiaciliao。”zheiyangkeyigancuililuodijieshu,buhuibashuangfangdoukunzaihuatili。


er、xianliaolizhuanchenggongzuolidefangfahejiqiao


suiranwomenshangmianyoushuo,xianliaoshimeiyouzhongdiande,shimeiyouyiyide,danbudaibiaoxianliaojiumeiyouyongchu。shijishang,zaigongzuozhong,xianliaoyekeyizhuanhuanchenggongzuoli,keyirangwomenzaizhichangshangzuodegenghao。


1. tongguoxianliaoyanzhengrouruandu


zhichangshigexiangduibijiaolengkuhejiangyingyidiandedifang,yinweiyoumubiaoyaowancheng,youminglingyaofabuhuozhezhixing,suoyizhidujiuxiangduibijiaosenyanyidian。zheijiuhuishideshangsizaixiashumianqian,huixiandexiangduinanyiqinjin。danyeqiashizheizhongqingkuangxia,xuyaoyidingdeshouduanhenengli,shidezijihuozheduifangbianderouruan,congerzengjiahuxianglejiedejihui。


wojideyouyici,womianshiyigexiaoshouzhuguan,wenleyixiebijiaozhengshidewentizhihou,woyibianheshuiyibianchuanchaleyixiezaichifan,huozhekafeitingcaihuixianliaodehuati。


“zuijinxinshangyingdexxdianyingbucuo,kanguomeiyou?”


“nixihuanwuxiuboyandeneigejiaosema。”


“yibannidoushenmeshihoukandianyinga?”


woqishibushizhendexianglejiezheixiewozhishixiangchakaixiahuati,buxiangyizhixianzaineizhongyiwenyida,tashenpanajuhuashuocuodejiangyingmianshizhong。jieguo,tadehuaxiazijiudakaile。


zheiyangdexianliao,yifangmiankeyiquerenyixiayingpinzhedeyingbiannengliherouruandu,yinweiyingduikehushixuyaoyidingdeyingbiannengliherouruandude。lingwaiyifangmian,tongguozheiyangdexianliaoduihua,haikeyikanchuyigerendexiuyang,yijiyigerenshifouzailianghaodehuanjingzhongchengzhang。dangran,wosuoshuodehuanjing,bingfeizhitadejiajing,ershizhitashifoushizairenjiguanxilianghaodehuanjingzhongchengzhangqilaide。


2、bianxianliaobiangongzuo,xiaolvgao


woyiqianzaibangongshi,jinzhidajiaxianliao。danhoulai,wofaxian,qishiyuangongmenyibianganhuo,yibianxianliaoyixiayeerbucuo。tebieshizhiyuanmenzaiganyixiefeinaolilaodongdeshihou,biruzhenglizhuangdingfenleiziliaowenjiandeshihou,wangwangbianxianliaobiangongzuo,xiaolvfanergenggao。


shijishang,yuangongzhijiandexianliaoshijinbuzhude。woyiqianzaichejianshangbandeshihou,shangsilaoshiyaoqiudajiabuzhunjianghua。dannixiangxiang,benshenjiuganzhongfuxingdegongzuo,yijinggoukuzaole,haiburangshuohua,neishijianshiyouduomedenanguo。suoyi,womenhaishihuitoutouliaotiande。zhibuguoyuanyuankandaozhuguanguolaideshihou,jiazhuangbuliaotianeryi。


suoyi,houlaiwozuoguanligongzuozhihou,wojiuduiyixieshiwuxingdanchunzuoyedegangweibujinzhiliaotian。wojuedetamenyibianshoushangganzhehuo,yibianliaotian,fanerhuijianshaozuoshidekuzaochengdu,youzhuyutigaoxiaolv,tishengtamendejingshenzhuangtai。


womenyoujusuyubushishuoma:“nannvdapei,ganhuobulei。”bulei,kendingshiyibianganhuo,yibianliaotianla,buranlianggerendoumenzhebushuohua,zenmekenenghuibuleini?


3、laobanyuangonghuixianliaodedianshengyihao


woqulifa,xihuanneizhongyibiangenwoxitou,huozhejiantou,yibiangenwoliaotianderen。neizhongzishizhizhong,yiyanbufa,zhizhidaomaitouxitouhuojiantoudedian,wodaduoquyiliangcijiubuzaiqule。fanzhengwodeshiduantoufa,haodali,buxuyaoduogaochaodejianfajiqiao,yinciwoduijianfajishubushihentiao,fanershiduineizhongnengrangwoshufuhewuliaodehuanjingbijiaoxihuanyixie。


shijishang,womenruguozixiguanchayixiadehua,huifaxian,neixielaobanhuozhedianyuanshanyuliaotiandedian,shengyidoubucuo,neizhongkerenjinquhou,yiyanbufadedian,wowangwangjuedehunshenbuzizai,meiyouxiangkandeyuwang。erneizhongyijiankeren,jiutaotaobujuejiyutuixiaodedian,woyebuxihuan,juedetaichao,buxiangdai。fanershineizhonghaoxiangmeiyoushenmemingquemude,laobanhedianyuangenwoxianliaodedian,wojuedebijiaoshufu。wangwang,yehuizaixianliaozhongbuzhibujuemaiyidiandongxi。


4、tongguoxianliao,keyigouzhuzijideanquanwang


wodeyuwogebibangongshideren,jingchangdouyoudaliangdekuaijianshoufa。gebishigenvqiangren,ganhuoganjingliluo,zuoshileilifengxing。changchangwotingdaotachizesongkuaididexiaodi:“nizenmeyousongchile?”“weishanicaisongjiwo?”“nidaodishizenmepaijiande,zenmecailai?”


erwo,qiahaoxiangfan,meicikuaidixiaogelaiwodougentaxianliaojiju。birubipingrichile,wojiuhuishuo:“shibushiyouduchele?”“zenme,youpaoqupaoniule,wanglesongwodejianle?”meicixiaogedouhuixiaozhehuida,huozheyexiaozhekaiwanxiao。


youyici,woyoudaliangdejianyaofa,kuaidixiaogedaole,wohaimeiyounongwan,yushiwojiugentashuo:yaobunixianqupaibierendejian,wodedengnipaiwanjianhoulaishou。”tashuo:“womeishajianla,jiugebinvrenyigejianla,buji,rangtamanmandengzhe,fanzhengwomeicisongdao,tadouyaoxiuliwojiju,jiurangtaduodengyihui。”jieguo,tabangwoyiqinongleyigeduoxiaoshi,quanbunongwancaidaogebiqusongjian。


shide,zaigongzuozhongdajiaodao,youshihoubuyaotaiguoyujinjinjijiao,jingchangxianliaoyixia,wangwanghuigouzhuniyuduifangdeanquanwang,zheizhonganquanwangkeyizaichuxiancuowu,huozhefashengwentideshihou,huibimianyixiebubiyaodechongtu,nengcujinduoyixieliangxingdehezuo。